Kind of partner one may attract in life.
So, this was another request to write about the kind of partner one can attract in life based on someone's chart. Initial request was only for Darakaraka but as I see there can be lots of factors impacting someone's relationship life, so I decided to make it an all inclusive article to cover all factors. Again, this article is about the kind of person you attract for relationship so it can be your spouse or any other person you are in relationship with. So, let's cover all the factors involved here -
Venus
7th house.
7th house lord.
Planets in 7th house.
Darakaraka.
Common Indicator.
Results of different planets as indicator of spouse/partner.
Conclusion.
Let's cover all points one after the other -
Venus - Venus is natural karaka of relation for everyone. For Men or Women, it is Venus only as natural karaka because it is Venus quality that everyone desires in relationship. Venus' most common significance is devotion, happiness and beauty. Whenever anyone thinks about relationship, he/she desires a partner who is devoted to relationship, who can bring happiness or with whom one feels happy and who is beautiful (as always beauty lies in the eyes of beholder). So 1st of all, Venus position is going to impact your relationship and you will attract that kind of spouse which is shown by your Venus' position.
7th house - 7th house is main house of relationship or partner. 7th house is right opposite to your 1st house which represents self. So, the partner you attracted in your life is nothing but your mirror image. That's why, in majority of cases, no matter how many times someone gets into relation, they attract same type of person. It is sad truth of relationship. But with age and experience, people can make better choices. Also, desires and priorities change with life. Desires of a couple in 40s and 50s are much different from a couple in 20s.
7th house lord - Now, if Venus is what we are looking for then 7th house and 7th house lord are what we will get as a partner. 7th house lord very much indicates the trait, characteristics or nature of partner. As there are tonnes of professions these days, I don't think we can be certain about profession or career of partner.
Planets in 7th house - Then planets in 7th house shows the kind of relationship you can have. It is like what actually is happening in battle ground :). So, benefic planets in good dignity there can show a good relation but even a slightest trouble with dignity, or impact of malefic planets on 7th house in either of the charts can impact relations negatively.
Darakaraka - Then comes the concept of Jaimini Astrology. The planet with lowest degree besides Rahu & Ketu is known as Darakaraka and it becomes spouse indicator. In softwares like Jagannath Hora, Rahu is considered for Jaimini Karakas may be because Rahu is the reason why we take birth and we need to accomplish those things or relations in life which are indicated by Rahu in chart, but still I never considered Rahu as anyJaimini Karaka but I do consider Rahu as important indicator in career. If Rahu is getting involved with 7th house, 7th lord or it is darakaraka, then I will interpret that person is here in this life to do business or deal with masses. Also, I don't think that people take birth "only for relationship". If you have karma towards someone then relationships are bound to happen an break. You need not to specially plan for it. During life, it will also happen like any other event. We are supposed to do lot more things in this world then just getting into relationships.
Common Indicator - Now, the prediction about partner can be profound if the same planet is natural karaka, 7th house lord and darakaraka or it is sitting in 7th house. Like, if someone has Venus as 7th house lord or placed in 7th house and Venus is also his Darakaraka, then we can make a prominent prediction about someone's spouse or partner.
Results of different planets as indicator of spouse/partner - Here, I am only taking the planet's significance to predict things about partner but as we know that sign position, house position, dignity, nature of planet, conjunction, aspect on such a planet or on 7th house of relation, all matters. And that too in both charts. So, here are the few generic traits/ characteristics/nature you can expect to see in your partner if following planets are your 7th house lord/darakaraka/placed in 7th house -
- Sun - Sun represents Ego and Authority. So, you can attract a person who is in good authority at work or he can be authoritative by nature. Relationship can have ego conflicts as it is common knowledge that ego and relationship can not co-exist. You can include all other traits around ego and authoritative attitude.
- Moon - Moon represents Emotions. So, you may attract a partner who can be emotionally attached with you or who is emotional by very nature. This can be a good situation if emotions are balanced else it can even create emotionally obsessive person for relationship/partner.
- Mars - Mars represents Dominance and Control. So, you may attract a partner who can be dominating or controlling in relationship. Partner can be protective too but there can be a dominance struggle underneath such relation. Partner can have Mars like Career like Soldier, Police, Athlete or Engineer etc.
- Mercury - Mercury represents Business & Communication. For them, communication is life line for relation. Partner can be a business person or somewhere related with communication oriented field. But if they can't communicate to their partner effectively then it is hard to sustain such a relation. Mercury can also attract a younger or youthful partner.
- Jupiter - Jupiter represents knowledge and wisdom. As Jupiter is most benefic planet, Jupiter impacting marriage is always a good thing in chart. Jupiter will make you attract a partner who is high on knowledge and wisdom. It is like marrying to someone religious or spiritual. Here, relation can work if both are ready to be each others teacher or counselor and share wisdom with each other. Only place where this position can be troublesome is when person is too spiritual/religious and shows no interest in family life.
- Venus - Venus represents beauty, devotion and luxuries of life. So, this may attract a partner in life who can be very beautiful and pleasant to look at. The relationship should be based on devotion which means couple should be devoted to each other. They can attract a rich spouse too but if desire of wealth is insatiable from either side then it can create issues in relationship. So as always, excess of anything can be a problem.
- Saturn - Saturn represents discipline, law and old age. So, they will attract someone who is quite older to them or more mature to them. The person can be a disciplinarian or can be really cold about relationship stuff. So, it is clearly a tough planet to deal with in relationship matters. Even if it is aspecting relationship houses or planets, then also Saturn is going to have the highest say and last laugh in relationship matters. It can also delay the relationship in life.
- Rahu - Rahu represents Foreign Things and insatiable desires. So, if Rahu is getting involved here then person can marry someone from foreign origin or may have a dis-satisfactory relationship. Rahu impacting relationship becomes karaka of splits or break-ups. Positively, we can only say that they pay-off their karma towards the people they get into relationship with.
- Ketu - Ketu represents isolation and separation. So, when Ketu involves in marriage matters then it normally creates a sense of separation from partner. Another planet that may give lots of difficulty in relationship.
Conclusion - In the end, everything is in addition. So, if Venus is karaka, Moon is 7th house lord, Mercury is darakaraka, Rahu in sitting in 7th house and Saturn is aspecting 7th house, then person will see all the results one after the other. Nothing will cancel anything.
Hope this helps. Thanks,
SPB
101 comments on this post Comments
Manan mishra
2023-03-20 13:52:39hello sir , i have moon in 7th house in saggitarus and 7th lord jupiter in 9th house in aquarious sign with ketu and mars darakarka in 3rd house in leo sign with rahu and venus debilated in 4th house with sun and mercury what kind of relationship i can have ?
SPB
2022-06-23 13:32:56A - it will impact relation.
Abhijith
2022-06-23 03:24:05I meant aspect of any planet in 7th house change the personality/appearance of the spouse or its about how ur marriage gonna be?
SPB
2022-06-19 11:50:34P - highly communicative and unstable. may change his approach now and then.
Priya
2022-06-18 19:03:31Like if he emotional , practical, submissive or dominating,loyal or a flirt??like that
SPB
2022-06-18 17:48:29Priya - It depends on you what you mean by character?
SPB
2022-06-18 17:47:32Abhijeet - it depends on u what u mean by chaste?
Abhijith
2022-06-18 14:29:30Does Jupiter aspect in 7th house from 3rd house give chaste and cultural spouse?
Priya
2022-06-18 14:07:54Sir, What about spouse character?
Priya
2022-06-18 13:58:37Sir, What about spouse character
SPB
2022-06-18 12:43:53P - can be frustrations in relation.
Priya
2022-06-18 07:30:25Sir,7th house lord mercury is in 4th house conjunct with rahu in Pisces ascendant..does this tell about partner character is bad or marriage going to be bad?
SPB
2022-04-06 11:25:01P - some connection with foreign lands, feeling of loss.
Puja
2022-04-06 05:40:33My Darakaraka is Venus and 7th lord is Sun ....both are sitting in 12th house
SPB
2022-02-05 11:51:32Ankita and Divya - please read my views on astrology and marriage.
Divya sree
2022-02-04 19:20:40My dharakaraka is sun is sitting with mercury and kethu in the 5th house,i am a cancer ascendent,my 7th lord saturn is sitting in the 12th house,how would be the spouse?please tell me ?
Ankita
2022-02-03 20:03:15Capricorn ascendant Darakaraka- Mercury conjunct with Sun & Rahu in 9th house (Virgo) 7th house - Mars, 7th lord Moon in 8th house with Venus in Leo (Uttraphalguni) Ketu & Saturn (Sat is Retro) in 3rd house Jupiter in 12th house in Sagittarius What kind of partner will I get? Love / Arranged Marriage?
SPB
2022-01-08 11:43:05D - please apply for cosultation from astrologer of your choice. this cant be answered in a comment/
Divya
2022-01-07 22:37:29Please tell me about my life partner i am a cancer ascendent my dharakaraka is mercury is conjunct with ketu in the 5th house and my 7th lord saturn is sitting in the 12th house
Divya
2022-01-07 22:33:46Please tell me about my life partner i am a cancer ascendent my dharakaraka is mercury is conjunct with ketu in the 5th house and my 7th lord saturn is sitting in the 12th house
SPB
2021-12-26 19:36:39V - partner can be protective or dominant by nature.
Vamsi
2021-12-26 12:41:41Iam libra ascendant my darakaraka sun in 8th house with moon aspected by saturn & 7th lord mars in 7th house with retro mercury aspected by retro jupiter
SPB
2021-12-12 11:12:44HB - Astrology and Marriage has no connection with each other.
HB
2021-12-10 16:01:33I am cancer ascendent with jupiter as darkaraka in 10th house ashwini nakshatra ..with saturn in bharani , mars in 9th house, venus and ketu in 7th and moon in 4th house. I have suffured so much in relationships tht m now afraid to get married, but still i feel to fall for love again and again and get hurted.. feeling to lose myself into all these.. will these ever stop? Will i get a good spouse someday? ( i have rahu and saturn in 7th house in navamsh and jupiter in 4th in gemini)
Ratan anmol.
2021-12-03 22:34:38My darakarak is jupiter .My seventh lord jupiter in ninth house in tauras in kritika star. Mars in seventh house in pisces.Mercury and sun is in third house in scorpio and aspecting jupiter occupied in ninth house.
SPB
2021-10-16 08:35:38H - whatever u may look at , you may get Saturn like person only.
hema
2021-10-15 21:02:56I have Venus as darakaraka and it is in the 1st house (tula lagna). Saturn in 7th house and lord of 7th house is Mars. Should we look for Venus or Mars or Saturn characteristics in partner?
SPB
2021-06-23 19:41:59A - ego issues will be there, can be a communicative person and business person.
Anamika
2021-06-23 19:11:26I have a mercury and Rahu in 7th house with Leo , My darakaraka is mercury
Anamika
2021-06-23 19:11:20I have a mercury and Rahu in 7th house with Leo , My darakaraka is mercury
SPB
2021-05-06 16:37:27AD - it is troublesome and frustrating for all, no worries,
AD
2021-05-06 13:54:17Thank you sir for replying but can I know about my married life?
SPB
2021-05-06 12:35:53AD - he can be knowledgeable and learned. Can be in profession of guiding and counselling people.
AD
2021-05-05 21:37:01I am gemini ascendant. my 7th lord Jupiter is conjuct with Rahu in 1st house and darakarka mars in 7th house conjuct with ketu so what kind of husband I get?
SPB
2021-02-17 15:35:33UJ - please read my views on astrology and marriage.
Utkarsh Jha
2021-02-17 08:12:59I have 7th lord jupiter in libra 2nd house with both moon and Rahu. Venus in leo 12th house. Darakarak is sun in 10th house with mercury. Can you predict my spouse.
SPB
2021-02-09 11:06:22S - please read my views on marriage and astrology.
Sahil
2021-02-08 23:37:47Sir,darakaraka sun in libra in 6 th house with mercury and venus,taurus ascendant,7th lord in rohini nakshtra in 1st house,rahu aspecting from 9th house and jupiter aspects 7th house from 3rd house placement. Please tell about spouse, Sir please tell can spouse would be from other caste or culture? Thank you for sharing valuable knowledge and time.
SPB
2021-02-08 12:51:42can be beautiful but egoistic. Thanks
Sahil
2021-02-08 08:29:46Sir,darakaraka sun in libra in 6 th house with mercury and venus,taurus ascendant,7th lord in rohini nakshtra in 1st house,rahu aspecting from 9th house and jupiter aspects 7th house from 3rd house placement. Please tell about spouse
SPB
2021-01-12 12:38:33Tp - can be in knowledge sharing work.
Tp
2021-01-12 11:06:17Sir my jupiter darakaraka is in purvabhadra nakshatra. Please tell me the nature of my spouse. My jupiter also aspects my mars.
Swami Premanand Bharti
2020-10-12 11:06:31M - pls read my views on astrology and marriage,
Madhusree
2020-10-12 00:15:13How will my husband be if darakaraka jupiter in leo in 6th house.
Swami Premanand Bharti
2020-10-09 12:03:02S - he can be from different culture and can be in field of knowledge sharing
Sally
2020-10-09 04:37:34What will be the characteristics of my probable spouse? I am a scorpio ascendant, and my darakaraka is mercury, which is conjunct venus and rahu in the 9th house.
SPB
2020-09-06 16:48:16@ S - this makes it more prominent.
Sujit
2020-09-06 13:01:18Mercury being Vargottam in horoscope will change the results? Thanks a lot for reply!
SPB
2020-09-05 11:08:28S - childish and unstable.
Sujit
2020-09-05 08:32:147th Lord: Venus Darakaraka: Mercury in 3rd house 7th house: Taurus. No planets in 7th house 7th Lord in 1st house(Scorpio) with Jupiter conjunction and aspected by Mars and Saturn. Spouse nature?
Swami Premanand Bharti
2020-08-19 17:00:11@ W - I am not being witty. Its reality. Any planetary position will bring problems in relation.
WISH
2020-08-19 15:10:17Thank you Sir, This was a witty reply :) I was just worried because people have quite negative meaning associated with Sun Venus conjunction
Swami Premanand Bharti
2020-08-18 11:27:11@ wish - married life is always problematic for everyone.
Wish
2020-08-17 18:46:52Sir, Jupiter retrograde in 2nd house. Sun and Venus conjunct in 7th for Virgo Ascendant. Will my married life be troublesome?
Swami Premanand Bharti
2020-07-30 17:08:09@ V- Leo asc normally have issues in relationship
vandana
2020-07-30 14:49:55Sir, leo ascendent...7th lord saturn(retro.) in 8th house with ketu, darakarka mars in 1st house ,jupiter in 5th house ,venus rahu in 2nd house in navamsa chart, libra lagna, 7th lord mars in 8th house with rahu Married life?
Swami Premanand Bharti
2020-07-17 10:45:49@ DGR - problematic married life with dominance struggle.
Dr.DGR
2020-07-16 17:45:06sir , my 7th house lord is Mercury and i have'Mars,ketu & Moon' in my 7th house (All in Gemini)..And my darakaraka is sun ,can u plz tell about the character(Dignity) of my spouse & marital relationship !
Swami Premanand Bharti
2020-06-22 10:44:05@ AS - No, karakas are different for different D-charts. please download Jagannath Hora Software. It can give you information you are looking for.
as
2020-06-22 05:58:30sir if my darakaraka is Jupiter in my birth chart, should I also take Jupiter to be my darakaraka in the D9 chart. Is the planet for darakaraka in birth chart same in D9 chart as well or is it different.
Swami Premanand Bharti
2020-06-19 16:32:56@ AR - it shows partner can have connection with foreign lands nd relation can have dominance struggle
AR
2020-06-19 13:15:01Sir, my darakaraka Jupiter is retrograde in pisces in 12th house and my 7th lord venus conjunt mars. Please tell me what does this mean.
Swami Premanand Bharti
2020-06-10 16:37:32@ rk - lots of instabilities in relationships.
Rk
2020-06-10 13:09:02Sir four planets conjunction in 7th house Scorpio and 10th & 7th lords are aspecting 7th house and mars is darakaraka. this will create sanyasa yoga or marriage problems?
Swami Premanand Bharti
2020-04-30 14:01:09@ M- communicative and business oriented.
Madi
2020-04-30 05:39:21Hi, my darakarka is Venus, sitting in 7th house with Mercury in gemini, and I am a Sagittarius ascendent please tell me what kind of husband would I get?
Swami Premanand Bharti
2020-03-25 22:20:01@NS - I think i already did your consultation. :)
neha sharma
2020-03-23 00:20:59sir 7th lord sun in 11th house along with mercury and venus(not combust), mars in 4th house and no planet in 7th house, jupiter in 6th along with ketu and darakaraka is saturn in 12th house capricon along with atmakaraka rahu..please tell about the kind of spouse.
S.kumar
2020-03-10 01:51:28HI, my 8th lord mars conjuncts my 7th lord venus within 7 degrees in the 4th house in the sign of cancer. mars is holding the lowest degree in the conjunction and mars and venus conjunct in pushya nakshatra. also my Jupiter which is my darakaraka is retrograde in 12th house. what does this say about my spouse.
Swami Premanand Bharti
2020-02-10 09:35:30L - Egoistic spouse can bring instability in life.
L
2020-02-08 12:31:25Hi my 7th lord is leo Sun in second house. Mars is in 7th house. What type of wife
Ryan M.
2019-12-30 06:48:257th Lord: 2nd House (Sagatarius, Venus) 12th Lord: 2nd House (Libra, Venus)
Swami Premanand Bharti
2019-12-26 11:42:02@ Ryan - Its my chart. :P . She can be from field of knowledge and counselling. she can be from different culture.
Ryan M.
2019-12-26 05:17:41• Venus: 2nd House of Sagatarius • 7th House: Taurus (No Planets) • Lord of 7th House: Venus • Darakaraka: Jupiter Your thoughts?
Swami Premanand Bharti
2019-12-07 17:25:48@ KL - possible love marriage but troublsome and challlenging as partner can be cold in matters of love/romance.
KL
2019-12-07 07:18:28Mars in 7 th house of tauras whose lord venus in 5 th house of pisces. Darakaraka is saturn. Can you please give indication of spouse?
Swami Premanand Bharti
2019-11-08 11:38:17@ GD - restrictions and limitations in marriage, need to be very practical
Gurudatta
2019-11-07 23:17:28Jupiter debilitated in 7th house for cancer ascendant and saturn aspects Jupiter from 5th house.
Swami Premanand Bharti
2019-09-29 17:38:39@ Niketa - please apply under marriage consultation option.
Niketa
2019-09-28 04:36:01sir,my 1 st lord is venus(libra),seventh lord is mars.Both are in conjunction in 4 th house in shravana nakshatra -1.Darakaraka is venus..Sir is there possibility of love marriage? No connection of 5 th and 7 th ..5 th lord is in 6 th house..5 house lord have aspect over 11th house lord..please sir tell me how would be my future husband?
BP
2019-07-28 19:39:33Thank you for your reply!
Swami Premanand Bharati
2019-07-28 17:45:45BP - som foreign connection can be there.
BP
2019-07-28 12:49:11Thanks. What do you mean by partner can be from distant or foreign land? Will partner be from foreign origin or the one who has gone in foreign for study and career and working there?
Swami Premanand Bharati
2019-07-28 12:05:44BP - partner can be from distant lands. mother can play a role in choosing the partner. person can move to foreign lands after marriage.
BP
2019-07-27 19:12:07Sir, What indications about future wife if following combination: Venus as lord of 7th house Moon in 7th house Venus in libra in 12 th house Saturn as darakarakas? Also does this situation mean marriage with distant maternal relative?
Swami Premanand Bharati
2019-07-26 21:40:13RP - yes we can say so. If it is all benefic and no malefic impact is there, person can have some good foundation for relationship.
r pristine
2019-07-26 15:09:14Sir; Thank you re clarification. in light of same,i am rephrasing my query. If Darakaraka is very stong & well aspected by stong benefics; Will it Reduce unhappy indications in "Relationship" of a person( -ve given by analysing without darakarak)?? what is relative % importance of Darakarak apprx in such result? Regards.
Vishal S Saxena - Astrologer
2019-07-19 14:40:49RP - Marital Happiness is myth.
r pristine
2019-07-14 23:27:15Sir; thank you for a clearcut reply. I thereby understand that even strong,well aspected Darakarak cannot compensate negative marital indications in a chart. Q: (1) However, if borderline marital happiness is indicated(i.e.neither +ve,nor much -ve); then will such good Darakarak give some marital happiness?? (2) what is the relative importance of darakarak to give effects? 50%? or anything else? Thanks. Regards.
Vishal S Saxena - Astrologer
2019-07-09 21:38:01RP - no matter what, relationships will be tough and challenging.
r pristine
2019-07-09 15:50:12Sir; thank you for a comprehensive article. I have a doubt. Chart gives negative indication of marital happiness by various factors. but darakaraka is very strong, & well aspected by stong benefics. Can it save marriage, give marital happiness? generally, what is the relative importance of darakaraka vs 7th house? thanks. Regards.
Vishal S Saxena - Astrologer
2019-04-28 10:50:09@ Kavya - it is too generic. Please read my article "why two horoscopes will never match"?
Kavya
2019-04-27 19:11:53Hi i love the way you explain...its informative and open to interpretation...i am a new student of astrology and i was wondering if you could help me with a doubt? If atmakaraka of person A conjunct sun of another person, is that a good match, since sun is also considered atma right?
Vishal S Saxena - Astrologer
2019-04-03 00:15:50@ Sagarika - communicative and business person.
sagarika
2019-04-02 16:46:35Sir if 7th lord is mercury in 3rd house with sun in aquarius aspected by moon and darakaraka is saturn, no planets in 7th house. How will be the nature of spouse?
Vishal S Saxena - Astrologer
2018-10-22 11:52:24@ MM - pls apply for marriage consultation. thanks,
Miss Mimi
2018-10-22 04:12:16Pranam Guruji what type of husband would the following combination give : Venus in libra 12th house Moon in 7th house Taurus Jupiter in 6th house (darakaraka) Saturn in first house Thank you 🙏🏼🙏🏼
Vishal S Saxena - Astrologer
2018-10-17 21:53:23@ Vishal - As per their sign positions.
vishal
2018-10-17 19:47:46Sir there is a confusion between darkarak and 7th house lord. if 7th house lord is moon then your spouse will be emotion and your darkarak planet is sun you spouse will be full of ego. how can we reach on one conclusion?
Vishal S Saxena - Astrologer
2018-06-03 11:58:40@ PR - Egoistic & Dominating.
Pankaj rana
2018-06-03 11:32:51Beautiful elaboration sir, if Mars is darakarka and 7th house lord sun is in 5th house with mercury and ketu in Gemini sign and significator venus is Conjucted with Mars Jupiter in cancer sign in 6th house.. What it indicates about spouse...