Being-ness by a student Rahul
1. Being Happy versus Being Sad
Happiness is a state of mind. It’s about being joyful, cheerful, loving, caring, and optimistic. But how can we ensure more happy moments in our lives?
1. Break Free from Outdated Traditions:
Many customs we follow today were created centuries ago and might no longer hold the same relevance. Instead of blindly adhering to them, let’s create traditions that align with our current values and experiences.
2. Celebrate Often, Not Rarely:
Why wait for once-a-year occasions like birthdays, anniversaries, or foundation days to celebrate? Start marking these milestones monthly. Celebration doesn’t mean extravagance—it means taking the time to connect, share blessings, and create lasting memories with loved ones.
3. Choose Peace over Conflict:
When tensions rise and arguments seem inevitable, pause. If it’s a day of joy or significance, delay the conflict unless it’s urgent. Preserving the moment’s positivity is often more valuable than resolving the issue immediately.
Life is for Enjoyment
Life is a celebration of moments. If joyful moments are not naturally present, it becomes our responsibility to create them. The goal is simple: find as many moments of happiness as possible and make it difficult for sadness to linger.
Think about it—millions of people lose their lives every year to accidents, diseases, and unfortunate events. Yet here we are, alive, breathing, and functioning. Isn't that reason enough to feel grateful, happy, and joyful?
Understanding Sadness
Sadness often stems from the past—regrets, missed opportunities, or comparisons with others. While some reasons, like financial struggles, heartbreak, or career setbacks, may seem valid, optimism can act as a powerful antidote.
Choosing Happiness
No matter the circumstances, we must take it as our duty to be cheerful, caring, and loving. Happiness is not just a personal experience—it’s contagious. The more we embody these qualities, the more we inspire others to do the same.
For those who believe in concepts like heaven and hell, let’s frame it this way: the more you live with love, joy, and kindness, the closer you get to heaven. On the other hand, living with negativity only increases your chances of feeling trapped in a personal hell.
Final Thoughts
Happiness is not an elusive dream; it’s a conscious choice. By rethinking traditions, celebrating often, and prioritizing joy over conflict, we can make happiness our default state. Let’s embrace life with optimism, gratitude, and love—because life truly is for enjoyment.
2. Being Young versus Being Old
In an office, a group of employees was busy working.
John asked Paul, "How many young people work in your office?"
Paul replied, "Only one."
John, surprised, said, "How is that possible? I’ve seen plenty of young men and women coming in and out of your office. Why are you lying to me?"
Paul calmly responded, "I’m not lying. There is only one young man in our office."
John asked, "How old is he?"
Paul said, "He’s 55."
Laughing, John said, "Are you joking? I’m 23, and you’re telling me that the only young person in your office is 55 years old?"
Paul smiled and explained, "Yes, biologically he may be older than all of us. But if you talk to him, you’ll notice he’s always optimistic about life. His focus is on building a better future, while others spend their time dwelling on the past, childhood memories, or regrets."
To be young is to be optimistic.
To be old is to be pessimistic.
Thanks and Regards
Rahul 
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Nicely written. Thanks for sharing.
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