How to deal with Planets in wrong dignity?

So again, time to clarify things from yesterday's session on how to deal with planets in wrong dignity? Let's understand what I was trying to say about internalizing the energy with some examples for some of the planets -

Sun - Suppose someone has Sun in a wrong dignity. We all have our ego issues. We don't like when people ignore us or hurt our ego but rather than getting into ego conflicts with those people or throwing your ego on others who may be completely innocent in this ego hurt of yours, you need to ask yourself why you need such recognition or ego boost from others? You may realize that basically, you are a person suffering from inferiority complex or lack of self-worth and that makes you seek attention, focus and recognition from others. And when they don't give you that recognition or ignore you, your beaten-up ego gets further beating. So basically, problem is within you and it is your internal issue which you are throwing on others and making things more horrible for everyone including self.

Venus - Suppose someone has Venus in a wrong dignity and that person had a very deceitful love relation in early life. Now, due to excellent memory we all possess when it comes to our own sufferings, that person is unable to forget that deceit or fraud. Now, in later life some new relation came in life but that person is unable to trust the new person. Now, if he displays this lack of trust or suspicious nature on new person then things can be troublesome and he will again be left cursing relationship or people in his life. The only positive way is to go inside with thoughts and ask yourself why you are unable to trust this new person? Is it something wrong which new person has done or you are still clinging on to your past failures in relationship? If he asks these questions honestly then realization is possible that it is his own internal psychological issue which he is unnecessarily projecting on this new person. But if he throws this distrust on other person then things are gone at that stage only because others are bound to react.

Mars - Before throwing your anger on others, ask yourself honestly that why others are able to make you angry so easily? Rather than focusing on the person who made you angry, look within and try to find out from where anger originated. Basically, you have to completely turn-around the focus from the person who made you angry to yourself and anger will be gone. "When George Gurdieff's father was leaving this world, he told his son to wait for 24 hours if someone makes him angry". This is a valuable advice. Utilize those 24 hours in seeing why you got angry and anger will not be there anymore. I was fond of Buddha TV Series on Zee TV and only for one reason. Whenever someone used to misbehave with Buddha or try to hurt or harm him, Buddha never used to react and when that person later used to apologise, Buddha always used to respond - What happened? I don't remember anything. This was a great learning from that series as to how we should keep ourselves in moment, without impact of past or imaginations of future.

So, this is what I was trying to tell in live session. All our problems are self-created and hence, their solutions are also within self. If you project those issues on others then you are increasing your troubles because other person also has his troubles and problems. He is bound to react. 99.99% population is not Buddha in this unconscious world of ours who can just ignore everything thrown at him. So, heal your wounds within yourself rather than bleed on others.

Thanks, 

SPB