Omens and Indications - 3

Some random thoughts which can be considered as sequel of my earlier post on 12th Jan about Omens and Indications  .

Whenever it comes to questions of our current situation in life, we like to either blame God/Destiny or other people. Either God/Universe/Destiny dodged us or some other people in our lives dodged us. We were totally innocent people. And may be those other people are also thinking that they are innocent and we dodged them.

I mean what is the purpose it is serving or conclusion we are arriving at?

1. I feel that both answers are of escapism. Escaping from our own responsibility of our own actions which lead us to current state of our lives.

2. I am always big advocate of fate/destiny - https://www.astrosaxena.com/ffwse and "I know" that everything is pre-destined with free-will functioning only in the limited sphere of ignorance of destiny.

3. But when I use the concept of destiny then it is not for leaving the blame on Universe/God but in total acceptance of whatever Universe decides for us. If I say that it was my destiny to go through so many instability in my career to reach here then it was also destiny of all those people whom I came in contact with during the course of those careers and who contributed in those instability. If I was bound by destiny then even they were bound by the same destiny. So, I use destiny in totality and not to defend myself or blame others.

4. Then when we blame God/Universe for any negative event of our life then why we don't give credit to same God/Universe for any achievement of our life? Whenever we go through a rough time, we are quick to blame God that why God is doing this to me? So 1st of all, we accept that God is Doer and we are just a puppet. Then when we achieve something then how credit can come to us? How can we say that "I achieved this or that"? If achievement is our than failure should also be our and if failure is blamed at God then achievement should also be at God's credit.

5. But this is where the problem is? and the name of problem is Ego. Ego likes to take the Credit and Ego likes to shift the blame.

6. So 1st thing is that if you are accepting everything as destiny or pre-destined then accept it wholly/totally/completely. It can't be partial. It can't be like - "ohh I was destined to go through this suffering but how come this guy cheated me like this"? Well, if you were destined to suffer then there has to be someone who is destined to bring that suffering to you.

7. Then another way is to blame others for your situation in life? Why? Were you not born with a brain? Were you not advised correctly on time? If others could use their brains and dodge you then what prevented you to use your brain and safeguard yourself?

8. I feel both ways are wrong (partial blame on destiny or on other people) and it is about shifting the blame on others and defending own ego. How can we accept that we have created our own mess? But truth is that only. We are the reason behind our lives, either in good way or bad way? And we can change our life any moment, either in good way or bad way. If we are happy then it is because of our actions and awareness. If we are sad then it is because of our own inactions and ignorance.

9. So, we have two options -

a. if we want to accept everything as pre-destined then accept it totally. Accept that even your biggest enemy is also destined to make you suffer and even he can't avoid his pre-destined role.

b. But if we don't want to accept destiny totally then accept that your current situation is just because of your actions/inactions or knowledge/ignorance. There is no role of God or Destiny in it.

And when we accept our mistakes in our life then there is a possibility of improvement. Blaming others or destiny (partially) has no possibility of improvement or evolution.

Hope this makes sense. Post open for comments.

SPB